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Helping healthcare practitioners & people with Multiple Sclerosis navigate the complexities of sexual wellbeing.

MS Sexual Health Healthcare Practitioner Blurb

As A Healthcare Practitioner,

MS Sexual Health provides you with the extra support you need to address the complexity of sexual dysfunction in your patients’ lives, whether it stems from primary, secondary, or tertiary effects of MS.

As A Person with MS,

Multiple sclerosis can profoundly affect your sexual wellbeing. At MS Sexual Health, we see you as a sexual being and offer you the unflinching support you need to maintain or regain the power of pleasure in your life.

About MS Sexual Health:

Cara Griswold was diagnosed with M.S. in 1993 and knows first-hand exactly how much life can change with such a diagnosis.

Her work is guided by her lived experience of M.S., 25+ years of community activism, and specialized sex educator training.

She aims to inspire personal growth, healthy relationships, and empowerment for all people, focusing on folx with M.S., chronic illness, and disabilities, through a two-pronged approach.

Cara provides further education and training for healthcare providers so that they can better support their patients with MS, and additionally empowers individuals with MS with the radically honest support that they need to maintain or regain the power of pleasure in their sex lives.

Get Started with the MS and Sex Podcast

The MS and Sex Podcast discusses sexual wellbeing in a straightforward, sex-positive manner. From conversations on how ableism, sexism, racism, and other forms of oppression impact our sex lives, to identifying and creating the sexual experiences you desire, this podcast is an open forum for fostering the sexual confidence that allows us to create social change. Tune in to some of our latest episodes below!

My Goal as a Certified Holistic Sex Educator:

Awareness of sexuality and the interconnectedness of all bodies is an ultimate empowering experience. To thwart any sense of sovereignty this gives us and to maintain control, dominant systems use erotophobia, in all its forms*, as a potent tool of oppression. 


Because any system of supremacy serves neither the oppressors nor the oppressed, Holistic Sex Educators invite people to reorient their relationship to sexuality in a way that values radical honesty with themselves and others and embraces the full spectrum of human experience, from pleasure to discomfort and pain. 


My goal as a Holistic Sex Educator is to guide people to reconnect with their bodies and the world around them. This creates embodied individuals and respectful communities with the skills to create a culture based on justice, equanimity, and inclusion.


(*homophobia, transphobia, misogyny, body shaming, objectification, the infantilization of disabled bodies, demonizing/sexualizing of black and brown bodies, the rigid adherence to the mores of monogamy, and the vilification of alternative sexuality practices…)

  • From Dr. Don Lucas:

    Being a sex educator and scientist for more than three decades, I have been interviewed by many, but by no better than Cara Griswold. Cara’s thoughtful and probing questions and commentary allowed me to learn as much from her as I hope she and her audience learned from me.

  • From The Community:

    “Binge listened to your podcasts while harvesting...so good...I cried, I laughed, I learned, I questioned, I contemplated, and after each one, I wanted to sit with you and dive deeper. THANK YOU!!!”

  • From Dr. Susan Fahlgren Doctor of Physical Therapy, Certified in Pelvic Health & Obstetric Physical Therapy

    Cara's mindful and personal approach to addressing the complexities regarding sexual health and well-being is a much-needed perspective for both providers and PwMS. "Thoughtful, insightful, inquisitive, and ground-breaking" are words I often use to describe what Cara addresses with her website, podcasts, and classes. There is so much to unpack concerning sexual well-being; Cara is broadening that conversation to include the often-overlooked sexual health needs of the chronically ill.

  • From The Community:

    “Even for those who appreciate that sex education in the US (and elsewhere) is lacking at best, this discussion will be eye-opening. We know the consequences of the status quo. We know many ways we could be doing better. We know that we collectively need to know more. Why aren’t we doing something? Listen in and hear some insightful perspective.”

  • From Dr. Joli Hamilton:

    As Cara takes on the topic of sexual health for people who have MS and chronic illness, I find myself excited for all the potential she is about to unleash. My own anchor partner has MS and finding information on sexual health topics is enormously challenging due to the fragilization and erotophobia woven into the very fabric of our research. There is so much potential for increased life satisfaction when we see all people as unique sexual selves and I look forward to seeing Cara bring that potential into reality with her latest efforts.

  • From The Community:

    “…love how you and your guests talk about the subject matter with such consideration, thought, and care…In the polyamory episode, I really appreciated how you grounded and set the context of expectations from a white and western history. As a POC, it was really refreshing just to hear you and your guest call that out as the angle you were coming from.”

  • From Sex Educator Kailey Larson

    “Cara speaks from a deep place of personal experience that ensures her content is not only informative but empathetic and vulnerable as well. It is essential for folks seeking sexual wellness resources to see their personal experiences represented. Pleasure is an essential part of health; your sexual wellness should be taken as seriously as your chronic illness because they are not mutually exclusive. If you are experiencing a chronic illness and/or MS and feel it is time to also attend to your sexual wellness, follow Cara Griswold." Find Kailey on IG @kaileydelayne